Healthy Intimacy Flower Essence

Healthy Intimacy addresses a range of sexual and relational issues tied to past experiences, generational patterns, and conditioned beliefs concerning sex and love. Everyone has the right to wholeness regardless of gender, sexual orientation, religious beliefs, country of origin, or the family you found yourself in.

So many of us have had our lenses distorted by sexual abuse, harassment, the brainwashing of our culture, and if you're an empath or sensitive person, defilement can happen just through another's imaginations towards you.

There's a spectrum that exists with beyond-imaginable things done to babies on one end, and seeing a risqué ad planting a message in your head on the other. Most of us have had some things happen that land us in the middle somewhere, but all of it has the ability to make a mark on how you relate sex and love – if you do at all. A lot of us are cognizant of what happened, some of us don't have a memory but know we're not quite ok in that area. Consider this the non-therapy, non-digging-around-in-memories opportunity to experience gentle support.

If you know that there is a chasm there, or you sense something happened to you somewhere that has caused a not-quite-healthy reaction in your relationships, here is the blend for you.

Healthy Intimacy may encourage you to:

• Release guilt, fear, and shame
• Loosen sexual hangups
• Re-link sex and love in a healthier way in your psyche
• Cultivate stronger, longer-lasting relationships
• Soften the lingering impact of sexual abuse, rape, molestation, or harassment

The Flower Essences Used

Butterfly Weed supports those with fear of commitment, frigidity, impotence, or sexual obsessions. It encourages balance in relational dynamics that boil down to control, boundary issues, or losing interest when things get difficult, mundane, or too emotionally intimate. Butterfly Weed helps invite deeper levels of connection.

Basil nurtures the sacred aspect of sexuality. It can be used wherever there has been objectification, degradation, or misuse, whichever side of it you were on. Basil supports the shift from a purely physical act to the deepest expression of intimacy. It’s also helpful for those facing porn addictions or carrying shame and negative associations around sex.

Hyssop softens guilt and shame-based burdens that often accompany sexual abuse survivors, as well as those taught that sex is dirty or bad. Hyssop helps shift internal judgment and self-condemnation, inviting a gentler perspective toward oneself.

Iceberg Rose helps ease the effects of sexual abuse and invites back a sense of purity and innocence. This essence encompasses all ages and genders but seems especially supportive for children, who can be sensitive even to an illicit intention. Adults who experience frigidity or lack of emotional involvement connected to sex can benefit from Iceberg Rose, whether they recall a past situation or not.

Easter Lily addresses the spiritual and emotional aspects of the reproductive organs, especially in women. It helps where there has been misuse of sexuality, or condemnation of sexuality—even on a generational level. Easter Lily invites release from cellular memory and supports balance.

Evening Primrose softens emotional pain absorbed from the mother in early childhood. It is especially recommended for those who were adopted or unplanned, causing stress in utero. It opens the ability to form deep lasting relationships by addressing issues of rejection, fear of commitment and parenthood, and difficulties with sexual and emotional feelings. It supports greater openness to intimacy by easing early-life wounds.

Rosemary encourages reconnection where overwhelming experiences caused a sense of disconnect from the physical realm. For those who don’t feel entirely present or in tune with their bodies, Rosemary can bring about a greater sense of safety for soul and spirit to inhabit its earthly temple. Lack of physical response because you "check out" during intimate times can be indicators of past overwhelm that convinced you it wasn’t safe to be present. Rosemary also supports reintegration into society, networks, and community.

This is a 1 oz bottle that should last about a month of daily dosing.
We recommend taking no more than one blend at a time. Here's why and some possible work arounds.
All of our essences are made with brandy as the preservative. You can read more on why we use brandy here. 
Your order comes with dosing instructions, here's how to use essences if you want to read up before your order arrives. 

These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. You should not rely on this information as a substitute for, nor does it replace, professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your physician or healthcare provider before beginning any healing program.

Extra Resources

RAINN
1-800-656-HOPE (24 hour crisis line)
www.rainn.org

Child Help
1-800-4ACHILD (English and Multi-Lingual 24 Crisis Line for US & Canada)
www.childhelp.org

MaleSurvivor
http://www.malesurvivor.org/