This essence helps you stand in your individual identity and be more comfortable being yourself, especially if you feel like you’ve always had trouble fitting in.
Bravely You Essence may help with:
- feeling uncomfortably different from those around you
- not feeling confident in going forward in your unique calling
- standing strong against peer pressure/other's expectations
- maintaining your individuality
- the ability to see who your tribe is and where you do fit
Shooting Stars help those who feel very different from those around them, they haven't quite mentally or emotionally connected with the earthly realm. Many have had difficult or traumatizing births or womb trauma. Often there is a constant though not always obvious battle for them to fulfill their destiny or purpose, especially early on in life. This tends to show up as childhood health issues, and the disconnect between them and others or between them and the Divine as well as a disconnect from their true identity and mission to earth. For a Shooting Star personality to step into their purpose, they have to battle initially through a fog of having a strong sense of purpose though not knowing what exactly it is, then potentially fear of ostracism, ridicule or even martyrdom. Shooting Star will help you recognize why you are here, and help you to stand in your identity in the face of opposition, as well as feel more connected to the earthly realm and those you share it with.
Boxwood helps you break free of the expectations of others. For those who feel they have had certain behaviors trained into them, and especially if they have been overly compliant to fit into the “box,” this essence can help. Strict upbringing, and with a very strong sense of what kind of behaviors, thoughts and opinions can shift into less shameful states of consciousness. You can still mind your P’s and Q’s, fitting into situations and different company with boxwood while standing your ground where your individuality matters.
Goldenrod instills self-trust and confidence especially in those who don't have a strong sense of their individual identity. A key to identifying this type of personality is the individual modifying to fit whoever their present company is. Goldenrod will help where affirmation and attention from others is needed, it helps one to stop seeking outside approval and gain inner strength and conviction about who they truly are.
Harebell helps those having a hard time interacting in group situations and helps you not give your power away to others by letting them make decisions, or by seeking approval. Harebell's lesson is that you are good enough, just as you are, worthy of your Creator's unconditional love, and to stop seeking love in the wrong places, and compromising who you really are in order to get it. Harebell also helps those who have a hard time opening their heart to others. By receiving true and pure love from the Source, you are able to let it flow freely to others.
Sweet Pea helps people who are unable to form social bonds or figure out where they fit in. For those who feel they are constantly searching for a place to belong, for a tribe, a place where they can contribute, Sweet Pea helps you to slow down a bit so you can better see a place to fit. Used by frequent travelers who are homesick and by those who move from one thing to another without becoming truly involved, Sweet Pea offers a sense of roots and connectedness.
Elecampane helps those who feel out of touch with the general population. It helps you be comfortable being yourself in social situations and also enhances self-worth. It brings a stronger sense of individual identity and helps you integrate new information and experiences when pioneering new things that only you could bring about.
Buttercup helps those who are frequently overlooked to shine forth with full consciousness of their unique gifts and abilities. Buttercup inspires you not to judge yourself based on conventional ideas of achievement, or by comparing yourself to others, but to realize your worth based on who you are, not your outward recognition.
This is a 1 oz blend that should last you at least a month.
We recommend taking no more than one blend at a time. Here's why and some possible work arounds.
All of our essences use brandy as a preservative. For more information regarding the brandy as well as alternatives, click here.
The essence blend can be taken by itself, or you add another layer of healing with the Bravely You Program.
We all want to be authentic, even if we don't know what that means personally. Being yourself is not about standing out, or being different, although authenticity may do that for you. It's about following your own path, going after your own destiny, and using your gifts without comparing them to others. Authenticity is a precursor to your true purpose in life.
Most of us have had experiences in our younger years that have taught us that who we are is not acceptable. We may know that is a lie at this time in our lives, but have formed ways of fitting in that we aren't even aware of.
“We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.” André Berthiaume.
Separating who we are from our facade isn't always a straightforward process. Yet, it's a necessary step in pursuing our life purpose, finding legitimate community, having worthwhile relationships, and being comfortable in our own skin.
Moreover, by being someone you are not, you are telling yourself that who you really are is not ok. When you have low self-worth, it often spirals into bad relationships, and settling for less in life. It also puts you at greater risk to certain physical ailments that are rooted in self-rejection such as adrenal fatigue, candida, hypothyroidism, stroke, psoriasis, autoimmune problems, endometriosis and others.
Delivered via email, The 30 Day Authenticity Program includes exercises and energy work to help you find your way to greater self-acceptance and to feel safer revealing your true self to the world. You will need to be an email subscriber to take part in this.